Mary Ann Randall

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• Name: Mary Ann Good
• Eby ID Number: Waterloo-25397
• Residence: 1911, Waterloo Twp., Waterloo Region, Ontario, Canada; Mennonite

Mary married Abner S. Good 14 Dec 1921, Bridgeport (Kitchener), Waterloo Region, Ontario, Canada. Abner (son of Samuel Good and Mary Schmitt) was born 5 Jun 1891, St. Jacobs, Woolwich Twp., Waterloo Region, Ontario, Canada; died 24 Aug 1981, Cambridge, Waterloo Region, Ontario, Canada; was buried , St. Jacobs Mennonite Cemetery, St. Jacobs, Waterloo Region, Ontario, Canada. [Group Sheet]

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• Eby ID Number: Waterloo-331542

Howard married Pauline Virginia "Polly" Cline 26 Jun 1948. Pauline was born 3 Mar 1922, Virginia, United States; died 4 Aug 2008, Kitchener, Waterloo Region, Ontario, Canada; was buried , Hagey Cemetery, Cambridge, Waterloo Region, Ontario, Canada. [Group Sheet]

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• Name: Gladys Eileen Martin
• Eby ID Number: Waterloo-239540

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MARTIN, Gladys Eileen (Mrs. Lloyd S. ) - On Tuesday, December 6, 2005 at home two days after celebrating her 77th birthday. Beloved wife of Lloyd and loving mother of Ron and Sharon, Darrel and Sharon. Lovingly remembered by son-in-law, Eugene and daughter-in-law, Karen. Grandmother of Robyn (Maurits) Dagelinckx, Ryan (Leanne) Uttley, Tonya and Jonathan Martin, Hillary and Evan Snyder and great-grandmother of Mikaela and Nathan Dagelinckx and Benjamin Uttley. Daughter of the late Abner and Mary Ann Good. Survived by brother, Willard (Joyce) Good and sister, Margaret (Peter) Metzger and sister-in-law, Polly Good. Also survived by sisters-in-law, Florence Wideman, Viola (George) Wallace, Ellen (Carson) Moyer, Laura (Milo) Shantz and brother-in-law, Abner (Shirley) Martin. Gladys will be fondly remembered by her many nieces and nephews and their families. Predeceased by brother, Howard Good and brother-in-law, Aaron Wideman and sister-in-law, Almeda Martin. Gladys was active in her church, St. Jacobs Mennonite, past-president of the Women's Missionary Sewing Circle, taught Sunday School and served in many capacities. She also partnered with Lloyd in all their business ventures including farming, Martin's Tax Service and a recreation facility in Grand Bend. The family will receive friends and relatives at the Dreisinger Funeral Home, Elmira on Thursday from 2-4 and 7-9 p. m. At 9 a. m. on Friday, December 9th transfer will be made to St. Jacobs Mennonite Church for funeral service at 11 a. m. with Pastor Mark Diller Harder and Pastor Barb Smith-Morrison officiating followed by interment in St. Jacobs Mennonite Cemetery. In her memory, donations to Mennonite Central Committee or St. Mary's Hospital Cardiac Care Unit would be appreciated by the family as expressions of sympathy.

The Record Newspaper 7 Dec 2005

Gladys — Lloyd S. Martin. Lloyd (son of Annanias S. Martin and Susanna Steckle) was born 20 Jul 1928, Waterloo Twp., Waterloo Region, Ontario, Canada; died 20 Apr 2008, St. Jacobs, Woolwich Twp., Waterloo Region, Ontario, Canada; was buried , St. Jacobs Mennonite Cemetery, St. Jacobs, Waterloo Region, Ontario, Canada. [Group Sheet]

Ronald — Rhoda Lynn Martin. (daughter of Moses B. Martin and Alice Angeline Drudge) [Group Sheet]

Ronald — Sharon Elizabeth Gibson. [Group Sheet]

Darrel — Karen Sue Eby. (daughter of Milton Eby and Agnes Magdalena Eby) [Group Sheet]

Other Events:

• Name: Sharon Louise Kruger
• Name: Sharon Louise Snyder
• Eby ID Number: Waterloo-186153

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ST. JACOBS (Jun 4, 2007)

Any doubts Lloyd Martin had about holding a memorial service for his daughter evaporated when he walked inside the crowded St. Jacobs Mennonite Church.It had been a year since Sharon Martin had vanished, and her father and family needed to end the wondering and start the grieving. And so it was that hundreds of friends, relatives and former colleagues filled the pews to honour Sharon's memory, even while she remains alive and missing in the eyes of Waterloo regional police."It was overwhelming . . . We didn't know if it was the right thing to do or not. We debated it for a long time," Lloyd said. "But anyone I talked to that day reaffirmed why we did it. We all needed closure and healing."It may never be known exactly what happened to Sharon, who was last videotaped withdrawing money from a Fairview Mall bank machine.

The facts are this: suffering from schizophrenia, she disappeared May 17, 2006, for the second time since January. Although her body has never been found, her family believes she was driven to end her own life. She was 47. Lloyd, her father, was prompted to write this in the service's bulletin:"We believe that Sharon died in Hamilton on May 18, 2006. We may never have evidence that would provide absolute closure. We trust God's love be greater than Sharon's mental illness and trust his loving care wherever she is."But the life of the woman celebrated on a recent Saturday wasn't measured by her mental illness. Sharon was also a loving mother; an intelligent, well-educated and respected elementary school teacher, whose classroom broke down in tears the day she announced she'd be leaving her job. She was a terrific swimmer and basketball player; talented cook, accomplished musician and gifted singer.

One by one, mourners passed around the microphone in the church's basement, sharing memories of Sharon. They talked about road trips to Winnipeg, driving her grandfather's Mercedes, and wolfing down a friend's oatmeal as a girl so they could go out to play. They remembered her Christmas concerts, the mini-putt course she helped run by age nine, the choir she sang with at Rockway Mennonite Collegiate.Her family talked honestly and openly about Sharon's long struggle with schizophrenia, which altered her perception of reality.

They sang through their tears and said goodbye."The illness that took her away wasn't the sum total of her life. She was far more than that," said her sister-in-law, also named Sharon Martin. "She had such a profound influence on so many people, and a lot of people were hurting out there. We wanted to honour her, and not focus so much on the illness. But we didn't want to hide it."Today, Sharon's green Ford Taurus station wagon is parked outside her father's St. Jacobs home, and her life's possessions remain scattered through a handful of cardboard boxes. There are plans to ask a judge to grant a death certificate, and talk of placing a marker inside a local cemetery.By the time she disappeared, "she was living more in the spirit world than the real world," he said. Sharon had legally changed her named to Wendy Holmes, had stopped taking her medication, and was in and out of hospital. Throughout her struggle, however, there had been glimpses of the old Sharon and the recurring belief she might shake off the illness that dogged her."She had another reality that was very real to her," said her sister-in-law. "She often talked about taking flight, moving into another world."When Sharon first disappeared in January 2006, she was located in a Buffalo psychiatric hospital after five days. This time, her family again held out hope, following every trail they could, before her purse was found in a garden near Hamilton harbour.Publicly memorializing her was a necessary step in the grieving process, her family said. They couldn't go on forever in mourning limbo, even thought her sister-in-law admits they will probably never "know 100 per cent for sure" what happened to Sharon.As for those lingering questions, they're best answered by faith in higher power, the family said."It doesn't do much for me to sit around and stew about it," Lloyd said. "As a man of faith, I believe God's grace is bigger than her illness. I trust God to take care of her."

The Record 4 Jun 2007 - gmercer@therecord.com

Sharon — Victor Paul Kruger. [Group Sheet]

Sharon — Eugene Nelson Snyder. (son of Nelson G. Snyder and Vera Koch) [Group Sheet]